Is there a worse feeling than thinking you have something clever to say only to realize you really don’t and just staying silent instead?
How about saying it out loud and realizing only hours later that it wasn’t all that clever and wondering if everybody else noticed and thinks that you’re pretentious.
relationships are so much healthier when the goal is to experience life together and not to try to make the person into who you want them to be or to make them do what you want them to do.