And to the rest of the people who celebrate an important day in December that i’m not aware of, or to the people who just enjoy this time of the year, Happy Holidays!
if you’re a straight girl and you only ship gay relationships and completely ignore lesbian ones, that’s a problem, that’s fetishization, and you don’t get to decide that it isn’t
Also, when you exclusively ship white m/m relationships at the expense of interracial relationships, then you’re not only likely fetishizing m/m relationships but erasing/ignoring POC representation and hiding behind insincere allyship to do so.