I love the dog <3
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if an elf and a dwarf fucked, would it make a human?
Going by older editions of D&D they made an awkward ugly thing called a Dwelf, which usually combined the worst aspects of both races personalities and physical construction.
… yeah, a human
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biggest hetero lie i’ve been told: fighting is a part of a healthy romantic relationship
Disagreements are a part of every healthy relationship. Having bad days when you’re not your best self is a part of every healthy relationship. Fighting, disrespect, and insults? Those are not healthy at all.
NO OKAY THIS IS SO FUCKING TRUE. THIS BOILS MY GODDAMN BLOOD.
STORY TIME.
When I was 16 I had recently moved, and was attending a new school. About half-way through the school year, I started dating a guy I was friends with. He and I got on REALLY well. Like yeah we had disagreements and shit, but we always, ALWAYS talked about it and discussed our feelings and why things were making us upset. Every. Single. Time. We had a good system. And when we had disagreements we resolved them immediately. Otherwise we got along SO WELL. It was great I was really freaking happy and he was too!
About six months into my relationship, people, mostly my family members, commented about how WELL we got along…a l m o s t like it was a bad thing. I didn’t really think about it though, too involved in my own brain.
Skip ahead, to about a year-ish in. Friends of mine would sometimes get into fights with their significant others and they’d tell me ALL about it and I’m a good friend so I’d listen and try to give advice. Except I never had anything when they’d ask me, “Oh well what do you do when you and J get into fights??”
And I never had an answer other than “Well we don’t fight.”
And they never believed me. Or worse they’d insist that was UNHEALTHY. “Fighting is healthy, it lets out tension building up! You just need to sometimes!”
I never, EVER EVER felt comfortable with that, and I’d shrug it off and insist we didn’t NEED to fight. Our relationship was ALREADY healthy, especially because of the way we handled disagreements. People never listened and insisted there was something wrong, whether out-right stating it or hinting at it.
Even my best friend insisted that fighting was healthy, and I listened to her on nearly everything. Except for that. I didn’t budge for anyone.
DO NOT LET PEOPLE FOOL YOU. FIGHTING IS NOT HEALTHY. DISAGREEMENTS ARE. BAD DAYS ARE OKAY. LEGITIMATE SCREAMING AND GOD FORBID PHYSICAL VIOLENCE IS. NOT. OKAY!!!
Don’t be fooled guys, please. :/
Talking to one another through disagreements is the ONLY healthy way to handle disagreements in a relationship.
Verbal, physical and psychological violence is NEVER healthy.I’ve probably reblogged this before but it’s incredibly important.
Taru and I never fight. The closest we get is play-fighting about who’s cuter. If he asks me to do my dishes and I forget to do them that night, he doesn’t yell at me or start shit about it, he just reminds me again nicely.
A relationship should be about being happy. I don’t know about you, but I’m sure not happy when I fight with someone. I’m angry and hurt and crying and anxious and it’s shitty. I don’t want the love of my life to make me feel shitty, I don’t want to make him feel shitty, and I can guarantee he doesn’t want to make me feel shitty or have himself feel shitty.
Respect, trust, and communication are healthy. Yelling and anger just lead to everyone feeling shitty.
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“video games linked to adhd” gee i wonder why ppl with adhd would be drawn to an interactive medium that fully engages your brain and gives your hands something to do at the same time. it is a mystery
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If you “couldn’t stand life with an autistic child” or “don’t have the patience to deal with an autistic child” then maybe don’t.ever.have.kids.
If you aren’t willing to love and care for your child unconditionally, then you really shouldn’t be raising kids.
I will take it a step further, and I mean this with all of my heart:
If you (generic you) decide to bring a child into this world, you owe them unconditional love and care. This is not optional. This is not something you give or withdraw depending on the child’s compliance, performance, configuration, sexuality, gender identity, grades, room cleanliness, etc. You owe them love. You owe them care. You owe them support. You decided to bring them into this world, you owe them. It is your obligation and your responsibility.
(This is exactly why I believe that choice is important and that forced or coerced motherhood is really fucking wrong.)
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Grandma… It’s me, Anastasia!
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