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Anonymous asked: Spring green, Freckle
Spring Green: How do you relax when you’re stressed?
Ignore life and pretend things are alright
Freckle: Do you have any marks on your skin? How do you feel about them?
My back is pretty fucked up.
blanket man, with his blanket hands
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[video]
- backgrounds are literally watercolor how rad is that?
- cute aliens
- all them round shapes
- sisters, sisters, there were never such devoted sisters
- the existence of David Kawena literally the best human ever
- how they actually respect Hawaiian culture and make fun of tourists
- music that’s in Hawaiian but impossible not to try and sing along to
- Hawaii
- Cobra Bubbles, CIA
- early 2000s girl-pop version of Elvis Presley at the end
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straight passing privilege doesn’t exist
I’d actually argue that it does. I’m in a relationship with a man, so if I come across someone who’s hostile to queer people, I can use my relationship to deflect that hostility away from me. Ace people, gay people, gender nonconforming people, and anyone who isn’t attracted to the ‘opposite’ gender dont have that same opportunity because most likely they’re not in a straight looking relationship.
It’s conditional “privilege” that only exists while you remain closeted. In order to access that “privilege”, you can’t talk about who you are, and you have to hide part of your identity. As soon as you tell somebody you’re bi, it’s gone. It’s generally used to invalidate bi people based on the gender of their current partner, and deny access to support and communities, and it involves making assumption about the gender of the people in the relationship.
And you know what? Gay people /do/ have the option of not talking about their relationship or sexuality, assuming they’re not with their partner at the time. But literally nobody argues that that’s a reasonable or positive thing because /it’s not/ a reasonable expectation. But when bi people have to not talk about their sexuality in order to be safe? That’s a privilege apparently.
And ace people? Ace people are told /all the time/ that they don’t “really” face discrimination because their asexuality isn’t obviously visible, especially heteromantic aces. People argue /all the time/ that ace people “have that same opportunity” to access the “privilege” of being assumed straight.
Being assumed straight isn’t a privilege. It’s heteronormativity. And heteronormativity hurts /everybody/ who’s not straight, no matter what their relationship.
also, as a trans person in a “straight-passing” relationship, can I add that what you call “straight passing privilege,” i experience as misgendering and non-binary erasure.
just something to think about when you start bringing up “gender nonconforming” people as an argument for “straight passing privilege” being a thing.Two NB bi people are in a relationship. One of them is ace. People assume they are a cishet couple. This is not privilege, this is erasure
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People: *misgenders animal*
Me: *corrects them*
People: OH MY GOd I’M SO SorRY, I diDNT meaN TO my bADPeople: *misgenders human*
Me: *corrects them*
People: lolz as if no thx
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I always find it comical when Christians (mostly whites) say racist things bout Arabs. Like did you forget that Jesus was Palestinian? And if you need a geography lesson, Palestine is in the Middle East, which means that Jesus was indeed middle eastern. So why be racist against your own God, or the son of God (which ever you believe).
I love it when people do stuff like this.