It’s hard to explain how alienating the media has been this year as an “essential worker”. Every single piece of media produced this year is about how “we’re all” stuck inside all the time now, and I’m just like….. I got two weeks at home when I actually had covid and otherwise have gone to work every single day I normally would. All these adverts and news show lines about how we’re all in this together and we’re all spending our days baking banana bread and zoom calling and all this and I’m like….. Well, not all of us I guess. And it’s weirdly alienating and makes you feel weird and cut off
we need to talk about this more. being forgotten by capitalism is deeply terrifying, because when we’re not marketable we don’t exist.
I don’t even know anyone irl whose lives have been truly disrupted like that, who’ve only been leaving their house for groceries or food and to come back or whatever. Literally everyone I know is an essential worker. No one at any point worked from home. It’s been plainly spelled out that I and everyone I love are completely disposable in such a blatant way.
It’s unfortunate that “incel” is kinda watered down as an insult sometimes, reduced solely to it’s like, basic meaning (IE. “you can’t get laid”) because when I call someone an incel I mean more than just that, it means I’m calling somebody an emotionally unbalanced misanthrope who adopted far-right politics out of sheer misogyny, someone who is pathologically obsessed with protecting their own fragile masculinity, with “probably sexually frustrated” as the least important part. Incelism is a particularly deranged far-right ideology with completely insane tenets, so when I call someone an incel it’s more like “you hate women so much it broke your brain”.