I hate when Cis men claim to be anti rape or feminist. Like, no. You’re literally rape culture.
TIA:
This post says so much to me. Men don’t have to do anything to piss off these people. All men have to do is exist and that itself is a crime. Trust her, she is a totally reasonable and accepting person.
Human AU Garnet is half Senegalese, half Cambodian (because I headcanon Ruby as Cambodian)
-Anonymous
You cna’t say that an AU has a set race like it’s fact. The proper way to say it would be “I headcanon ____ is _____ because ____ in my headcanon”
what transmysoginistic does and doesn’t mean
What it is: Saying someone is trans because they fit a certain gender stereotype or saying someone can’t be trans or is offensive because they don’t fit the gender sterotype
What it isn’t: a man wearing a dress or makeup.
saying a man is transpmysoginistic because he wears a dress or makeup or does something that would fit into the female sterorype is in itself transmisogyny. Just as saying a character IS trans because they wore a dress one time or had a female counterpart.
Asexuality is growing up under the assumption you are a late bloomer, and then the assumption you are broken. Asexuality is learning the word and still being afraid to define yourself as asexual because how can you say you don’t feel something you don’t even understand. Asexuality is coming out to people and having them laugh and tell you ‘when you find the one’ Asexuality is trying to enter spaces that promise acceptance and being told ‘but you’re straight’ Asexuality is trying to enter a relationship, worried that if you tell them they won’t give you a chance and worried if you don’t you’re just leading them on
Asexuality is living in a culture that finds sex so vital half the world revolves around it, and never understanding
Asexuality is being told you have it easy, so often you doubt any of your problems are real
