Heterosexuality is a couch. Nobody even bats an eye if you keep it in the living room for everyone to see–it’s simply expected. I mean, where the hell else would you keep it? Hidden in a bedroom? No, that would be weird.
Homosexuality is a bed. Having a bed in a public room is considered weird and gross–you’re expected to keep it in private bedroom you close the door to before anyone else comes over. Because even though there are a million and one things someone can do sitting on a bed
that aren’t sexual (and plenty of ways to have sex on a couch), the first and foremost thing anyone associates beds with is sex.
Bisexuality is a Western-style futon. Sometimes it functions like a couch, sometimes it functions like a bed, but whichever position it’s in at the moment, it’s still a goddamn futon. People who want to use it as a couch give you shit for not having a real
couch; people who want to use it as a bed give you shit for not having a
real bed. It’s acceptable in your living room, but only if you make extra certain to put it in couch position and hide the sheets before company comes over. Otherwise, you’d better hide it in a guest room.
Asexuality is a table. No matter how many times you tell people it’s not meant to be sat on, dickheads with no manners will try to park their nasty asses on it anyway.
I’m not a youtuber blog, but I feel like this has to be said.
In Markiplier’s co-op Forest video with JackSepticEye, they were discussing how they have to move around a bit because fans keep finding out where they live. Once again, Mark has to move.
Just because youtubers entertain you, does not mean you have the right to invade their privacy, especially going as far as knocking at their door.
Mark, and other youtubers, are human beings. They deserve privacy just as much as we do. Please respect that.
Especially from Mark’s standpoint, seeing as he’s introverted, to introverts- home is sacred and safe. When a random stranger shows up at your doorstep, the safeness is removed.
Please do not make someone feel unsafe in their own homes.
this is what i just picked up from the grocery store. it cost $32. Thirty. two. dollars. for 1 pineapple, 2 bags of grapes, a small container of raspberries, 1 soft drink and 2/$1 nuts….
do you know how much junk food i could have for $32? do you have any clue how much McDonald’s you can get for $32?
stop shaming fat people poorer than you or people poorer than you in general for not eating healthier. stop lying about how cheap it is or how it’s comparable to fast food. just stop.
stop fucking leaving your partners just because they realize they are asexual and or aromantic in the middle of the relationship you fucking assholes
Except non aro/ace people usually require romantic affection and sexual satisfaction to sustain in a relationship, even if they love a person. Don’t condemn them for desiring physical advances and romance with their significant other. They deserve that kind of relationship just as much as an aro/ace deserves one without it.
the word you’re looking for is “selfish”
Leaving a relationship you no longer feel comfortable in is not selfish. Telling people to stay in a relationship they no longer feel comfortable in because it would hurt your feelings if they left is selfish.
Hey, yeah I am one of those people who left a relationship when we both realized we were not going in the same direction.
He is asexual, and I was very much not.
Dont get me wrong. I still adore the dude, and he is my best friend to this day. But we were NOT going to work out in the long run.
I want a family at some point. I like sex. Being in a relationship like that made me feel very unwanted and unattractive. It got to me. It started to destory the relationship more and more. My self-esteem dropped to nothing while dating him. He tried his best, but he wasnt comfortable doing things that would help me feel better. I wasnt getting the attention I needed.
I was with him for 5 ½ years. He is my best friend. But this was not going to work.
Do not EVER make someone feel bad when they realize that the future they want, the affection they need is selfish. NEVER tell me that.
He deserves the relationship he wants as much as I do.
Today on tumblr: suffer through a relationship you don’t want to be in anymore
Ace hear. I owuld actually feel very guilty if I was keeping someone from being in a happy relationship. You are very much allowed to stop being in a romantic/sexual relationship with someone if they do not provide what you need. It isn’t selfish of you to leave, it’s self destructive for you to stay. Now I’m not saying cut out all contact, you can still be friends with them but go and seek out the person who can give you what you need.
If an artist draws something for someone at no cost, that person is either very special to them, or it was a personal choice and a mutual agreement between the artist and the recipient.
Artists who make a living by their art do not deserve harassment from people who feel entitled to free art.
Why is this so hard for people to understand.
*walks into bar* *sits in a booth with ppl in it* dont yall love being cis? i love to be cis, its good. (whispering to small lizard under the table: what do cis people drink? milk? you said milk?) yall got milk at this bar?
