“Realization that one is trans can take anywhere from a few moments to several decades“
UHMMM.. hello could this be any more true?! This might be one of the most brilliant and true sentences that has ever been written in the English language.
She is too pretty when smiling and the media thinks we can’t handle such perfection
She’s cute as heck ok.
Yes she is
She smiles when she’s not in a role which forces her to play the equivalent of a cardboard cutout.
Like, have you seen her in catch that kid? Or panic room? Or zathura? She’s actually a really great acterss who was unfortunately put in a movie with a bad script.
Same thing with robert pattinson. Great actor stuck in a five part series that was poorly written that people like to focus on.
hey, yeah, can we not with this “testing people” thing
because if you feel the need to “test” someone then that means you’re trying to make them prove things to you without their knowledge. you are trying to control them. you are manipulating them. there are a variety of reasons people may not contact you first, including but not limited to
they need alone time
they prefer to be approached
they’re too shy
they feel smothered
they’re tired
they’re busy
they’re directing their attention to other people (though not your expense because people can have multiple friends!!)
it doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t miss you
or don’t like you
you can’t read peoples’ minds
don’t put words in their mouths
it makes you look like an asshole
how about when you feel like your needs aren’t being met in a relationship, you fucking talk about it instead of being a jerk and doing this
It’s terribly unfair to set invisible standards in relationships and then expect your friends to live up to them/be inexplicably disappointed in them when they don’t.
Seriously I used to do this all the time to everyone and all I can say is GROW OUT OF IT. Grow out of it as quickly as possible.
newsflash: people have lives that don’t center around you
