seeing these 18+ yr olds obsessing over that little stranger kids boy…i think im going to lose my lunch
Also, all those kids (Stanger Things & It) have stated on MULTIPLE occasions they find it extremely uncomfortable and weird..
Poor boy had to make a PSA stating he’d like to hang out with Finn without people shipping them and saying that they’re dating. Like?
Enjoy the programs, love the cast, and be part of a fandom but for the love of God don’t treat child actors like adults.
It’s because these women, who firmly believe their fetishization of “delicate” feminine young boys is different than men who prey on teenage girls, are fucking freaks and never been told that their weird obsessions are weird/gross
Also you really shouldn’t be obsessing/shipping any real living people
I mean ESPECIALLY NOT CHILDREN/TEENAGERS HOLY SHIT
I mean damn a 14 year old youtuber made a video on why he doesn’t want to be shipped with his friend and he got hate! By a bunch of adults!!
Y'all this is relevant af. You know I’m pro ship but people need to understand that there is a massive difference between fictional characters and real people, especially when the real people are minors. Don’t treat real people like fictional characters and if someone says something makes them uncomfortable, especially if they’re a kid, stop doing it.
Sexualising real life minors for ships goes past ‘free shipping’ and is legitimate predatory behaviour.
Don’t do it.
There’s a line when it comes to shipping, and when you’re harassing and sexualising a real life minor and making them clearly uncomfortable, you’ve crossed that line and need to rethink what you’re doing.
Real people aren’t fictional characters and you should not treat them as such.
Honestly the closer we get to 2018 the less chill I am about the whole thing. 2018 sounds like we’re living in a fucking sci fi novel. It sounds completely fake. And then it’s on to 2020s like????? That’s completely impossible and I don’t believe you.
*writes I LIKE GIRLS on every other page of my journals so future historians don’t try to insist that I’m straight”
Future straight Historians: “we see several examples of her prioritizing a sisterly bond with the women around her, for example on page 12 she says ‘I like girls’ and throughout the text she references loving women and preferring their company. This is not to say she prioritized above her romantic relationships because on page 78 she mentions talking to a man one time in her life. It’s hard to know just how much she valued her sisterly bond with women due to this one reference of men and the ambiguity of early 21st century slang. For example on page 12 when she said she liked women, the passage continues ’…in a lesbian way. I want to kiss girls, they are so pretty, I’m so gay.’ Now it’s difficult to understand just what that sentence means. We know that in the early 21st century kissing on the cheek in greeting had gone out of vogue but the word gay, a word with an archaic meaning of happiness gives the contextual clues that perhaps she is references that old fashioned practice.
Going back to the nameless man that is mentioned once on page 78 for one sentance…”
“Now, given that she wrote on page 12, ‘Just to be clear: I’m sexually and romantically attracted to women exclusively,’ one may be tempted to read this literally, but we can’t rule out sarcasm.”
It may seem like @vilesbian is joking, but she really isn’t.
