someone you care about letting you know that they get bad vibes from one of your friends: probably worth just keeping in the back of your head so if they do or say something shitty you believe yourself about it
someone you care about having issues with all of your friends and getting upset whenever you see anyone: emotionally abusive isolation tactic
any time some cis person claims they got “yelled” at for accidentally misgendering a trans person I call bullshit immediately ‘cuz it sounds like absolute bullshit since that’s not how trans people act on average and honestly even if the trans person did yell at you I still don’t care just apologize ya fuck head