Do you know how many dogs I’ve met that get scared or anxious around men because in their previous home men hit them? A lot, and they are very protective of the women who have adopted them now.
Men who are violent towards women are often violent towards animals as well. They think we’re all chattel. If a man wants you to choose between your dog or cat or him, dump the guy. Those animals will love you for the rest of your life, loyal and true.
Animals over men anytime!!!!
If your dog doesn’t like him, there’s a reason, even if you never know what it is. Trust the dog….
My families dog used to bite my uncle right on the ass cheek if he ever came over. Eventually my uncle got too scared to come over.
Straight men who infantilize women’s friendships have no fucking survival instinct. Like my uncle is always making fun of and rolling his eyes at my aunt’s friend lunches and telephone dates with her lady friends, teasing her like she’s a gossipy teenage girl in high school drama. And my aunt just laughs about it but I know for a fact that if it wasn’t for her best friend K, she would have probably set him on fire by now.
Like straight men are capable of maybe a quarter of the indepth emotional labor and support women do for each other. Like men can literally have one friend named Bob that they go fishing with once a year and still be content for life. Then they think it’s cute and girlish that their wives have these long term, integrated, emotionally intense relationships with women but like…LOL, it’s not because men don’t need those kinds of relationships, it’s just that they get it all from their wives while offering peanuts in return. PEANUTS.
Like if your woman is on the phone for 2 hours with her friend and you think that’s childish of her, just know that she spent half of that time getting the support that you should be giving her (but are incapable of) and the rest lamenting what a giant fucking baby manchild you are.
This is how homophobia and misogyny hurts men: it makes these kinds of in-depth, deeply emotionally invested friendships a feminine thing to do, and therefore unmanly (and un-straight) for men to do. Men are brought up to shy away from cultivating these kinds of deep and platonic friendships with other men. Because, you know, if you talk to your male friends all the time and hang out with them and cry in front of them and hug all the time and lean on each other (emotionally and physically) when you need support, it makes you gay and womanly. Which is, apparently, the worst thing you can be.
I’ve read articles and personal stories about and by men, talking about experiences they’ve had that have shown them how painfully out of touch they are with their own emotions and their own ability to open up and connect with people, including themselves.
I worry about men a lot. I worry about the number of men who find themselves incapable of providing emotional support for their friends, their significant others, and themselves, all because of how they’ve been raised to bury and ignore their more vulnerable emotions and tactile tendencies because they’ve been taught that this kind of closeness has to be stamped out at all costs.
Why: Filing false charge backs on Paypal for “unauthorized payment”
I had finished her commission on September 7th, she had sent full payment on September 2nd.
The dispute was opened on September 20th. I had messaged her on DA about the dispute, she claims it was a mistake and she was going to try to stop it.
I messaged her 2-3 times after that but have received no replies. There are now 2 other’s on her page who are asking about getting disputes as well.
She is currently using the art from her commission, that I drew, as her icon.
I had tried to look up previous bewares on this person but found none. I really hope this is just an issue with her bank, but it’s starting to look like it’s not.
Many people have written and spoken eloquently about how much this election matters, and I know it’s very preaching-to-the-choir for me to do it here. I know also that everything you can say about it, no matter how true, sounds like hyperbole. Can you believe that people, people who are black and/or Latinx and/or trans and/or gay and/or disabled and/or female and/or poor and/or in any other non-dominant position are actually, like, going to live or die depending on the outcome of this election????? It’s true! And it’s exhausting to think about! Sometimes it feels like “oh god, whatever, give Drumpf the codes, bring on the bomb, let me just be dead.” I get that. I do. But this is a very, very easy way to check whether or not you can vote so you don’t get shut out of one of the most important decisions the U.S. will ever make! Don’t just yell about it on the internet. Be about it. Otherwise we’re all in for a mandatory screening of BREXIT II: THIS TIME ITS NUCLEAR and I honestly don’t want to exaggerate but many of us will be just fatally fucked.
And re: just letting the bombs fall. If you can’t bring yourself to care about the end of human civilization because we’re a garbage species – and again I get that! – consider this: dogs.
She doesn’t deserve to die of radiation poisoning. I might, you might, but she doesn’t. Register to vote.
Forgot to post the pics I took of Valentina the morning I got her! Clothes on the way, hehehe.
Nope nope nope nope creepy creepy I am already getting chils up my spine
What’s the point of taking something I love and want to share with my followers and making it about how much you don’t like it?
There’s four tags you can block or you can just unfollow me, baby.
#bjd #you you #doll love #valentina
i never said it was not cool it is cool in just another way to me then you if you read back i never said it was bad or stupped it just scared me i find it cool like the scary kind since i think dolls and manikins and dolls are scary
if i sill offended you after this explanation i am sorry
“Do you guys have any of this brand in power strips?”
“Yes ma'am it looks like we carry that brand but the only strip we have in the store is for an outlet that allows you to plug three items into a single outlet.”
“Do you have any that are a strip and can hold a charge in that band?”
I am Silver Tongue, I am an artist. I have many characters and you can check out my art in the art tag. I occasionally practice witchcraft though I don't do anything too complicated. I am girl 2 and don't know what else to put here.
