my biggest concern in life is actually how my online friends can be informed of my death
I’ve actually planned this out. I’ve given my closest IRL friend my skype password so that she could inform all my contacts and they could spread the word.
he-isnt-even-stuck-in-his-home:
so i was scrolling through my facebook and this stephanie girl at the bottom of the picture was posting it trying to get attention about this dick in her town being super transphobic. apparently he has ordered her to take it down because of the hate it is causing his family but fuck him im posting this spread this shit dont let people fucking talk shit about us like this im so fucking mad.
SIGNAL BOOST
“dont’ let some idiot tell you it was ok to change your sex”
Don’t let some idiot tell you it’s NOT okay to change your sex. They are not okay.
Today on Social Anxiety Theatre: mentally rehearsing elaborate justifications for completely innocuous actions just in case some hypothetical interlocutor demands an explanation.
Oh my god OTHER PEOPLE DO THIS TOO???
OH MY GOD I’M NOT ALONE
I go through great lengths to create an airtight alibi for the most trivial thing my father might ask me.
There have been a lot of good memes this year but I think the underdog meme of 2014 is “shaming aesthetic bloggers who unnecessarily submerge things in water that should not be submerged in water”
shit
you used a ziploc you cheated the meme police are coming
This is too funny to be real
I would agree with you there but after this, I’m not sure if these kinds of things are trolls.
There have been a lot of good memes this year but I think the underdog meme of 2014 is “shaming aesthetic bloggers who unnecessarily submerge things in water that should not be submerged in water”
One of the women who organized the dance first complained about Claire’s dress, but upon checking, admitted that it conformed to the standards set for the event. Nonetheless, the same woman later pulled Claire aside and told her that some of the dads—who had been watching from a balcony—felt her dancing was “too provocative” and liable to cause “impure thoughts.”
When Claire pointed out that she hadn’t even been dancing, other chaperones joined in, again told her that her dress was too short (despite having verified it was within standards, and despite other girls having shorter dresses), and, finally kicked her out of the dance.
What made Claire so provocative that these men couldn’t control themselves? Well, apparently the fact that she’s 5’9, with long legs, and built more like a grown woman than like a typical teenager. That’s it.
The problem isn’t that these men found her to be attractive; the problem is that they and others—including other women—held Claire responsible for the men’s unwillingness to control their own reactions.
The message here is that if a man has difficulty controlling himself around a woman he finds attractive, it’s the woman’s fault for being too “provocative.”
Let me emphasize that point for those who still don’t get it: Women are held accountable for men’s reactions. This is why when a woman reports a rape, or sexual harassment of any kind, among the first questions asked—by both men and women—is inevitably, “what was she wearing?” And unless she was covered head to toe, there are inevitably comments like, “Well, what did she expect?” Even if the woman was wearing baggy sweatpants and a sweater three sizes too big, there are far too many who’s first response is, “Well, she must have done something.”
And this, my friends, is rape culture.
So they never thought about the fact that they might need help in not liking under 18 years old. Lets blame 15 year old girls next for the guys who like them- and why stop there, lets blame 10 year olds for the men thinking they arousing to look at too. My point is- with some men, there is always an excuse.
So wait wait wait
A bunch of adult men are having sexual thoughts about an underage girl and SHE is the dangerous element that should be removed? Not the perverted adult men surrounded by teenage girls?
Bullshit________ America.
when rape is the girls fault
- when she is the rapist
when rape is the guys fault
- when he is the rapist
Always reblog this
this is especially important with everyone dismissing Shia LaBeouf’s rape
and defending Lena Dunham’s sexual abuse of her sister
I had a teacher who refused to let any of us say “its okay” because of this exact reason.
It has taken me years to learn that it’s also okay to say “Thank you.” when someone apologizes.
It is perfectly acceptable to acknowledge that someone has apologized, and still refuse to accept their apology. There are things in this world that cannot be apologized for.I feel like you can tell a lot about a person by how they react when their apology is not accepted.
You can also tell a lot about someone by how they act when you recant accepting an apology.
You are not obligated to accept an apology. it does not make you less of a person and if they get mad at you for not accepting it, then they were already planning on doing whatever they did wrong again.
