with age differences in relationships we shouldn’t go by years, we should go by percentages
you know why it’s not as weird for a 35 year old to date a 30 year old than it is for a 20 year old to date a 15 year old? because that five year age difference represents a LOT larger of a part of the 15 year olds life than the 25 year olds, a bigger chunk of life experience missing
so like say for kylie jenner. she’s 17, tyga is 25. that eight year age difference is 47% of the time kylie has even been alive
eyes wide open
Or you can just not judge age differences because it’s different for everyone
or you can recognize that psychosocial development and life experience are relevant whether it’s convenient or not and its inherently predatory for a much older person to date a much younger person. “don’t judge” deez nuts honestly like that’s the weakest defense
shitpeoplesaytowomendirectors:
I was at one of my first networking lunches, with lots of important filmmakers in attendance. During a break I happened to strike up a conversation with the first woman who was able to join the cinematographer’s guild. She said that she’d had all the qualifications for years, and had applied long before she got in, but that the man in charge of membership refused to let her join, telling her, “Over my dead body!” “Oh my god,” I asked her, “How did you ever get in?“
“He died.”
shitpeoplesaytowomendirectors:
She was the daughter of the 1st AD, who had asked if he could invite her to shadow him because she wanted to be a 1st AD. I was happy to oblige. In between shot set ups, an art department PA takes notice of her talking to the 1st AD and leans in to me – the director, a woman, and a mother – and says, “He must love putting it in her ass.”
I turned to him and calmly spoke: “I’m going to tell you two things right now and you had better pay attention carefully:
One: That’s his daughter.
Two: YOU’RE FIRED.”
Nope, but you are a fan of fiction schadenfreude. BD
I take pleasure in the pain of fictional characters.
why does this make me feel mad
Because she’s doing it the harder way and he’s considered strong while she’s considered a whore.
like the problem with the tumblr community is that no one is allowed to safely fuck up
if i was my uneducated ignorant little 14 year old self y’all would have ripped me a new one and probably scarred me for life
and that’s so scary tbh, that a community of adults would and DO witch hunt and harass minors over things they’re being children about
Yes.
