ok i know i mentioned this before BUT my mom was watching a show about american shootings and it was like
so this dude shows up with a bunch of guns and opens fire at innocent civilians
then some of the civilians pull out their guns and start shooting back, but because neither know shit about aim they just end up hitting people who are running away
then the police shows up and doesnt know who the first shooter is and just shoots everyone
and thats?
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part of reality
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? wake up america
Imagine that your partner has been hitting you. Yelling at you. You’ve been married for a few years, you’re both in your 30s, you have a little daughter, and everything you do seems to be wrong. You’ve been made fun of, mocked and belittled by your partner.
But you need them, because you can’t take another failed relationship. You can’t be alone again, and they’ve got you convinced that all the beatings and scratches and scrapes are your fault.
You tell your friends and they laugh. No matter how many bruises or cuts you show them, it’s still your fault, so you hide them. You feel trapped, but you don’t feel like you can escape. You’re convinced that you’re just locking yourself in.
And you see online one day an article. Someone else went through what you have. They got the cuts, the bruises, the scratches. You see that here is hope and freedom from these beatings. The physical and emotional pain can go away, there is someone there to help!
So you write down a list of 10 abuse victim hotlines, for people being abused. And you call them one by one.
If you were a man:
6 of those hotlines would refuse to help because of your gender.
3 of those hotlines would refer you to or give you a number to a hotline dealing with people that abuse and are looking to stop.
1 of those hotlines would help.
Out of those 10, 2 of those would also laugh at you or say you deserved it.
If you were a woman:
10 of those hotlines would help.
Abuse is very scary, but what seems scarier to you; being abused, reaching out and getting the help you need, or being abused, reaching out and getting laughed and turned away over 60% of the time because of who you are?
Only 8% of men who call abuse hotlines find them ‘very helpful’ and get the assistance they need.
All they could say is “this is trash” because this study was written and published by a woman with a PhD and is comprehensive and heavily sourced.
Just to add some quotes found in the study from men who tried to seek help:
• They laughed at me and told me I must have done something to deserve it if it happened at all.
• They asked how much I weighed and how much she weighed and then hung up on me…I was told by this agency that I was full of BS.
• They accused me of trying to hide my “abuse” of her by claiming to be a victim, and they said that I was nothing more than a wimp.
• They didn’t really listen to what I said. They assumed that all abusers are men and said that I must accept that I was the abuser. They ridiculed me for not leaving my wife, ignoring the issues about what I would need to do to protect my six children and care for them.
And maybe the saddest one: They just laughed and hung up the phone.
Man can be abused too , this is not trash
My father had to suffer hell for years , and he ended up in hopsital too because of my mother . So don’t you dare to say that a man can’t suffer from abuse because that’s bullshit. It happens , it can happen to everyone . And the fact that people are not willing to help is just sick
How does a post about a woman loving her size = slandering black women???
He could of just liked her picture maybe even slid in her DM’s, but no… this demon had to bring up black women (who aren’t even mentioned or shown on the post) and insult them… for what????
This is why, as black women, we sometimes talk about black men so negatively, cause they do shit like this. Putting us down at any given moment for absolutely no reason then complain that we have an attitude. Ffs
Also @white girls this is how you be an ally. Shut them dusty rusty broke niggas down as soon as they come with bullshit
Wolfenstein, for those who don’t know, is a videogame series with soon to be eleven entries in the series, all of them entirely centred around killing Nazis ever since the very first game in 1981.
‘way to make it political’ buddy do you know what series this is
Bethesdantifa
The game’s setting is a Nazi-controlled America where the campaign is liberating the United States from nazis. In which the phrase “make America nazi-free again” is absolutely on the nose.
It’s like these people see any sort of buzzword and jump on it before actually knowing what the deal is. That’s how dedicated they are to defend nazis.
Reminds of that CoD:WWII tweet that mentioned female soldiers, and showed an actual picture of women snipers from the Soviet Union, and dudes were saying shit like “there were no females fighting in the 40’s, it’s revisionist! etc.”. Disregarding the very real picture with the post and female resistance fighters. Their thinking is so bizarre.
idk but wealthy people taking responsibility for their failures never happens
Was p inspiring when the banks that caused the global financial crisis stood up and took responsibility for their failures bravely taking the punishment of receiving billions of $ of public handouts for free
“takes responsibliity for their failures” when mcdonalds broke regulation with their hot coffee that was like 10 times hotter than its legally allowed to be, they blamed the customer and slandered her and wrote “caution hot” on their cups rather than making their coffee be what the legal temperature is.
Client: We
have to fix the website. I typed in “Jane Doe” as my username when I was
testing the site, and now it shows up for EVERYONE who tries to sign in. That’s
a big problem.
Me: You mean,
it shows up for everyone who tries to sign in on your computer?
I am Silver Tongue, I am an artist. I have many characters and you can check out my art in the art tag. I occasionally practice witchcraft though I don't do anything too complicated. I am girl 2 and don't know what else to put here.
