i hate when people on tumblr just say shit like “just surround yourself with positive people!!!! dont keep negative people in your life!!!!” like it’s not easy to just drop friends you’ve known for years and magically find a new gang of friends that you can trust so stop making it sound so simple
Also, surrounding yourself with kissasses is worse than surrounding yourself with people who will give you an honest opinion because the friends who call out your shit will help you grow as a person.