dilloh-wavern
asked:
I assume you're not the friendliest to people who lack experience in dealing or communicating with trans people. That if I make the slightest mistake with using my pronouns or terms, I'll instantly be criticized. I realize this is just a stupid assumption, but I don't have much else to base my decisions off of. And thus I'm just silently admiring you/your blog from the background whilst in total confusion.

I can accept it when people do it by accident. A friend called me “he” by accident shortly after coming out because I didn’t tell them my prefered pronoun yet and I corrected them and they fixed it but the person who did it today knew and did it on purpose after expressing that they are comfortable with trans people, just not the most important parts of being trans. She knew exactly what she was doing.