i say “im gay” a lot for someone who is pan
You should probably stop???
wild idea: don’t call yourself gay if ur not
maybe if y’all would stop intentionally totally erasing the existence and representation of bisexuals and pansexuals we wouldn’t have to settle for identifying with the gay community idk just one of those ~wild~ ideas I get sometimes
maybe y’all should realize that gay is an umbrella term for anyone that isn’t straight. thats why people say “gay wedding” for same-sex marriages even if someone in the marriage is bisexual. gay isn’t a sexuality, homosexual is a sexuality.