subway??? no man this is domway. we tell you how you want your sandwich and u shut up and eat it.
Subway? No, this is Domway, where we ask you what things you like on your sandwich, what you don’t want, and what you’re thinking of trying and then help you come up with a combo that makes you happy.
If you want to feel the pain of jalapenos burning your mouth as you eat, we will take joy in making that happen and watching you squirm and reach for youe drink over and over. If you would simply like some comfort food in the form of some tuna salad, we’ll make that happen. And if you want to be told how we’re gonna make your sandwich instead of being asked about it, you’re still free to stop us at any time, because this is still your sandwich.
Domway: No CreepyDoms allowed. Eat fresh.
This is perfect.
What vanilla people and wannabe ‘Dominates’ [sic] think BDSM is, vs reality, in a nutshell.
Lol awesome
In a REAL BDSM relationship, the sub actually holds more power over the dom because the sub is the one who calls it off when they’ve had enough.
BDSM is about giving people the illusion of being in control or being controlled depending on what they prefer as a fantasy but it also requires a mutual understanding of the limits and what signal is to call it off. The keyword in that is illusion.