elisabomb:

twofingerswhiskey:

“remove people from your life without explaining!” this is abuse

“move on from people who did something wrong once!!” this is abuse

“abandon people you’ve known for years!!! be selfish!!!!!” this is abuse

This whole post is a giant fucking guilt trip against anyone who has ever had to cut ties with an abusive or toxic person.

Yeah it’s courteous to explain why you’re leaving, but you don’t have to especially if you don’t feel comfortable or safe telling them the bad news.

If your boyfriend punches you in the face, it’s not fucking abusive to leave him even if he only did it once.

And who gives a flying fuck how long you’ve known someone? That doesn’t mean jack if they’re mistreating you or and making you miserable.

It’s not. Fucking. Abusive. To leave someone for your own sake, it’s your prerogative to cut ties with people who hurt you or make you upset, and this post is fucking garbage. Leaving someone is incredibly hard to do and can be lifesaving, so don’t fucking guilt people for deciding what is right for their own well being.