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Some well known signs of emotional abuse:

-Humiliating or embarrassing you.
-Constant put-downs.
-Hypercriticism.
-Refusing to communicate.
-Ignoring or excluding you.
-Extramarital affairs.
-Provocative behavior with opposite sex.
-Use of sarcasm and unpleasant tone of voice.
-Unreasonable jealousy.
-Extreme moodiness.
-Mean jokes or constantly making fun of you.
-Saying “I love you but…”
-Saying things like “If you don’t _____, I will_____.”
-Domination and control.
-Withdrawal of affection.
-Guilt trips.
-Making everything your fault.
-Isolating you from friends and family.
-Using money to control.
-Constant calling or texting when you are not with him/her.
-Threatening to commit suicide if you leave.

It is important to remember is that it is absolutely not your fault. Abusers are expert manipulators with a knack for getting you to believe that the way you are being treated is your fault. These people know that everyone has insecurities, and they use those insecurities against you.

Source: psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2014/10/13/21-warning-signs-of-an-emotionally-abusive-relationship/