“forgive everyone” positivity culture is fucking trash. you never have to forgive someone who’s assaulted, abused, or otherwise hurt you. it’s probably not even good for your mental health to forgive someone who fucked you up and in a lot of cases it’s not safe.
You aer not obligated to forgive anyone. If they are genuinly sorry, they won’t care if you forgive them or not. If they get pissed and try and act like a victim, then they didn’t mean their apology, they just wanted to make it seem like it never happened.