Honestly you were just giving your opinion on Jitters, if anything he's manipulating you into feeling bad for daring to disagree and saying something he doesn't want to hear.
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jestre:

puella-magi-angels-blog:

Thank you for being so kind! People have been sending me hate over that! 

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I live with a manipulative abuser, and the way Jitters tends to handle criticism reminds me of her and that rubbed me the wrong way. I really hate how he treats fans who disagree with him, and how he handles questions deemed stupid or not worth his time.


Please put it on the record I was trying to stay calm and collected while he replied with insults and dodging my questions. I don’t count mental illnesses as a valid excuse in my opinion, as me and many of my friends have (unmedicated for some of us!) disorders like depression, bpd, anxiety, and just plain stressful lives, and we do not resort to the tone he takes when he says it is due to his mental health.


Ah, sorry for ranting, but this is just my side of everything! 

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Dude, you tried twisting his words, and case in point, he explicitly stated his illnesses are not an excuse, but an explanation.

Also you were calm and collected, but you were trying to limit the context of what he was saying based on your view. Also, trying to force the “voice of the community” quote on him like it’s his job, thereby taking whatever context the original quote had out of it, didn’t do you any favors. (Nor did the guilt tripping.)

You, yourself, were attempting to be manipulative so you could win the argument. Perhaps as a consolation toward the sentiment toward your abuser?

If you’re being abused though, REPORT ABUSE TO PROPER AUTHORITIES IF YOU AREN’T ALREADY.

Why are you with an abuser?

Jitters reacts pretty decent and respectful to fans who disagree with them if they send their opinions in a respectful manner. The way he reacts is really determined by how you present yourself. If you’re a dick, jitters will treat you like a dick. If you are composed and respectful, jitters will remain composed and respectful.

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    I wasn’t even trying that time. XDI was just making an observation.
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    ooh burn I can feel the tiniest little hair on my arm just singe away from that. Keep trying and you might actually hurt...
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