I'm sorry, I'm just really really bad at telling weither or not people are telling a joke or saying what they really believe in a humorous tone. I was really on edge and made a lot of assumptions and I'm sorry.

Oh well I do hold grudges if people wrong me severely and I do wish them harm and misfortune but if it’s in the past, I keep it in the past until it comes up again. Then I pull up the evidence to prove my point.

For example: There is this one person who is transphobic and purposely misgendered me who I absolutely hate and they keep appearing on my dash asking for money because they are friends with popular artists I follow. If the chance comes up, I will post the pictures of the conversations that resulted in them getting removed from the group.

Am I going to start the drama when that happens? no. Will I be involved? yes.