You know, too often I see people trying to dictate what is and isn’t appropriate in a subject they aren’t experienced in. Like old white guys trying to dictate what a woman can do with their body. Or a person who doesn’t play videogames or even understand what a story and character development is saying that a game is sexist or mindless violence. Or a bunch of cis people saying what is and isn’t offensive to the trans community. Or people who haven’t been abused saying what is and isn’t abuse.
Let people who actually know what the situation is like say their view. Don’t drown out the voices of people under the guise of speaking out for them. If a trans person says a guy wearing makeup isn’t offensive then shut up and listen to them.