jitterbugjive:

mlpartconfessions:

I seriously hate it. I mean really, it’s like “I was friends with you when we had the same amount of watchers. 2cool4u”.

I lost a lot of friends due to this concept, and sometimes they even seem to ignore what I do for them since it’s not as good as someone that’s popular might be able to do.

I seriously want to be popular too - Not because it’s awesome, but to be friends with them again

-Anonymous

There’s also a possibility you’re not understanding how busy someone might be having to handle a lot of fans

Maybe they aren’t talking to you because they’re busy, or maybe you focus so much on their popularity that it makes them feel like you’re jealous all the time so they start to avoid you because it makes them feel bad to have someone talking about it all the time

Heck, it’s very possible they made new friends who get along better with them. For all we know, the relationship anon has with these people could be toxic, considering ‘they even seem to ignore what I do for them’. 

It sounds like you’re an easily jealous person, and I don’t think anyone would want to hang out with that for extended periods of time if that’s how you present yourself.

I have plenty of not-popular friends that I speak with frequently. And I have a lot of non-artists.

But people tend to only look at the ‘popular’ people that I know and then act like those are the only people I pay attention to, when in fact that person is only paying attention to those people and ignoring everyone else I talk to. Then I get accused of ‘only hanging out with popular people’ when no one even bothers to think I might have more friends than that.

I’m pretty sure ‘popular’ people tend to be friends because they have SIMILAR INTERESTS AND TALENTS that they can share. 

You getting popular wont change how you communicate with people. If you seriously think friendship is a popularity contest, you might need to consider how you perceive friends. 

I have a popular friend who I’m going to keep anonymous and whenever people try to be friends with her, they treat her like a character rather than a human being behind a computer screen. It really makes her sad when that happens. She tends to shut herself out from time to time.