You see it in every fandom and every community. Someone will hate someone else or a lot of people will hate one person and when I ask why they can only give me examples from months or years ago. When I ask how long they plan to hold a grudge they get mad at me and call me a white knight.
Isn’t ‘Love and Tolerance’ supposed to be the corner stone of the fandom? I just dont understand how people can just hold on to their anger at someone for YEARS over the most trivial reasons.
- Submitted by ask-kinshra-slave
The main person I hold a grudge against insulted me when I came out as trans and continued to misgender me until she was removed from all the groups we were in and got blocked by all of us. She was also and still is homophobic as well. So yeah, people are allowed to hold grudges.
LIke, seriously. It sounds like OP did something bad to someone and doesn’t want to change to make things better or admit that they might have been in the wrong.