If you aren’t trans, don’t say what is and isn’t offensive to trans people. Don’t tell me what I should and shouldn’t be offended by. Don’t speak on my behalf, I can speak for myself.
The same could be said for trans people who didn’t find the episode offensive. I’ve gotten told nasty things because I said as a trans person i thought everyone’s reactions were over the top. Other trans people have told me that i should be offended.
that’s exactly my point. The only people who were telling me it was offensive were peopel who weren’t trans and they actively blocked me when I told them it’s not and they need to stop saying it is. They were arguing with actual trans people about it.