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Your "Big M is less accepted because hes is large and manly compared to Steven" thing isn't far off. Look how often said 'allies' will praise and idolize trans people who 'look passing'. Look how often they will fetishize, have headcanons for, and draw little anime boys as trans because they "look feminine" or sometimes with anime girls that are 'moe'. If they can't fetishize you then you are problematic.
And they misuse the term transmysoginy. Transmysoginy is saying that people are not trans unless they conform to gender roles. Example: Saying that someone with the wrong body type for clothing can’t be trans or is offensive to trans is itself transmysoginistic.