how is screaming “I wanna suck your dick” to a band member you just met any different from someone catcalling you on the street
Read this
Read it again and again
Applies to actors, athletes, and other famous people as well.
Just because you’ve been fantasizing about them forever doesn’t mean that in their eyes, you’re anything more than a very creepy stranger sexually harassing them
One time a fan gave the guy who played Lex Luthor in Smallville a box of sex toys, on stage.
males weren’t oppressed by the patriarchy for over all of time, so they don’t get the same protections against sexual harassment that females do CIS WHITE TRASH!
It took me way too long to work out that this wasn’t about relating to unintentionally awkward introductions involving saying the wrong thing when joining your high school marching band.