thedenofravenpuff:

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dude…

I’m sure you MEAN well, but you can’t say that. 

You can’t tell anyone to just “take it easy” when being told how broken they feel, how complicated LIVING feels, the interaction between people in a sexual focused society.

You can’t tell a homosexual they should just chill instead of worrying about the implication of their orientation can create of reactions around them, how it makes people reach to them…

You don’t tell a bi to take a chill pill just because they feel a little confused, being told by people that they just don’t know yet what orientation they REALLY have. The confusion from being unsure themselves, if they are just going through a phase or not.

I’m not trying to rant at you…

But don’t tell people their orientation related worries and confusion are just unnecessary complication of life. 

Everything on that list matters and is relevant, and its out of our control.

It’s not something we do on purpose, but is part in the horrible lack of being 100% sure about everything in our lives, just like how everyone else feel. With the added complication of the orientation none of us got any control over.

Rant over…