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aloominarty:

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people are still mad about the rat thing

I have a bad past with rats ok. i hate them i just REALLY hate them

im being called worse then Hitler

no one cared to read the part where i said “I WISH I DIDN’T FEEL THIS WAY”

but people only read what they want

i’d never actually go hurt any animal…

i was trying to help people. people who aren’t getting help.1 because they live in Quebec and 2 because they are of English decent or English speaking. there aren’t anything helping these PEOPLE.

one family i know. The couple have been together for a long time and had 4 kids the oldest in highschool  the youngest in preschool. they lost there jobs and can’t even afford to hold on to a small house that they need and they can’t find new jobs  the father is looking for anything he’s even ready to work two or three jobs to support his family…

another family where the father isn’t around and the mother has to take care of 3 kids on her own in a cramped apartment…

another family where both parents are taking care of three children with autism the eldest is 11 or 12 and has gotten NO help from the government immagine the young twins that are almost 2 who seem to have it worse then there older brother. They need help from the government with money to get good help for the 3 kids before its too late

all these people got looked over for rats

and in truth adults learn something it might hurt but when we can afford pets we have to give them up or put them to sleep. I know…its not the solution you wanted but it the solution that adults have to do. after then when you don’t have the pet expenses you can be able to focus on things like getting a stable home and maybe later when you’re more able you can try again

not all of us  got to keep our babies..i use to have a dog named Buddy. my best friend in the world. i’d come home to see him happy to see me, he protected me, made me feel safe and loved and needed…but one day my mother came and told me there was no money for a stupid dog…i had to give him up or put him to sleep…i couldn’t have him killed…so my mother gave him to this fat old lady and her husband while i was at school…he didn’t love them like he loved me…she wasn’t right with him one day Buddy bit the bitch for trying to take away the toy i left for him and bit her…she brought him to the vet and killed him for it. only told me when i say her at a garage sale i was working at

I never got to say goodbye

im not toxic

i know what’s what

and just because it the none popular answer

doesn’t mean i don’t know the pain

or wish it was different then it has to be

im sorry for being an asshole jitters

Dude if you have depression, and people are aware of your depression, and said people call you names? You’re not an asshole. THEY ARE. I have people call me all sorts of shit and I just dust that shit off with one hand, and flip the whole world off with the other. Don’t let anyone get inside your head. Ironic. Doesn’t Jitters have another blog known as “BaldDumboRat”? Food for thought. Have a good night.

it goes to show jitters jumped at a chance to make me look the bad guy and himself the victim, along with getting people to care about his rats.

in one night he not only found out about my post, he started a one sided war

people are still going after me for that shit just because he was displeased

how odd now i wrote this new one there’s no sign of jitters or anything like that

jitters calls me toxic i’m sure it’s the other way around

That’s because I was the one who responded first and he found out from my post. I’ve repeatedly been the first to respond, despite drama.

I’ve tried to be helpful, but if you’re following up an apology by calling him toxic, you really need to look in the mirror and ask yourself if doing that is right.

Otherwise, the cycle of “sorry” followed by, “why aren’t you helping me?” or “you sure it’s not you?” or “you aren’t going to help me after all?” will ultimately hurt you perpetually because that is abusive. We help as much as we can, but you essentially bit that fed you.

If you apologized and get mad when people don’t accept you apology, then you apologized to shut people up rather than out of genuine remorse and that makes you still an asshole.