kidouyuuto:

apparently this needs to be said but uh abusive behavior is not excusable, even if its caused by mental illness, like

i get that it can make you manipulative or want to lash out. i really do. but you need to apologize when you are called out for it, you cant excuse it by saying youre mentally ill, you cant accuse people of ableism when theyre really just saying “hey this isnt cool you should apologize for this”

there are ableist people who assume that mentally ill people are inherently abusive. but being expected to own up to your abusive actions is not ableist. being held responsible is not ableist. you are not completely free of any and all criticism

Reblogged 5 years ago from robustquestioner (Originally from krabsquill-deactivated20160105)
48,846 notes
  1. wolves-with-dragons reblogged this from firein-myveins
  2. firein-myveins reblogged this from sacredpyre
  3. xspitfire-a reblogged this from sacredpyre
  4. sunlightandopenseas reblogged this from sacredpyre
  5. freedom-ofmymind reblogged this from firein-myveins
  6. grannyaesthetic reblogged this from habaebiti
  7. mybabyhunters reblogged this from xspitfire-a
  8. tielleic reblogged this from brighteyedbadwolf
  9. internet-cryptid-in-training-78 reblogged this from adaptive--manipulator and added:
    Had to deal with a very good friend of mine’s ex. The ex was manipulative and had serious mental health problems, and...
  10. theman-themyth-themoth reblogged this from openblogtomyabusivemother
  11. itsarthurtheaardvark reblogged this from openblogtomyabusivemother
  12. nyxkaikaos reblogged this from openblogtomyabusivemother
  13. screechingjellyfishnight reblogged this from openblogtomyabusivemother
  14. teaqueque reblogged this from openblogtomyabusivemother
  15. adaptive--manipulator reblogged this from karenz0
  16. graduallywatermellon reblogged this from openblogtomyabusivemother