deoxyrebornicleic:

Reminder that if you made mistakes in the past but apologized and learnt from them but someone keeps bringing it up, they are in the wrong. Not you.

It’s fucking okay to make mistakes like what the fuck is with people expecting people to be perfect but keep constantly bringing up the past and justify their own actions because they are mentally ill.

No
Don’t let your mistakes hold you back. Don’t let toxic ass people that live in the past hold you back.

As an abuse survivor and a mentally ill person, it’s really sad that people will do everything they can to bring someone down.

Don’t even pull the “You hate abuse survivors” card. I don’t hate them. They can still be angry at their ex abusers but the moment they start giving them a bad time and downright bullying them back/pulling off the same old shit and then saying “I’m an abuse survivor stop invalidating my feelings”, they are just as bad as their abusers.

No, this is not fucking guilt tripping. Listen, there’s a difference between retaliation and bullying. It’s okay to react negatively to abuse and bullying, but it is NOT OKAY to constantly bully and abuse others because of this. ESPECIALLY if they have apologized and learnt from their mistakes. You are preventing a good person from sprouting out of them.

Don’t bully
Don’t bring up things people apologized for
Don’t fucking abuse others just because you were abused
Don’t use your mental illness or the fact that you’re an abuse survivor as a fucking ticket to get away with these

Abuse is abuse