by your logic a straight man whos been called gay as an insult all his life experiences homophobia and belongs in the gay community. misgendering is still transphobia

jitterbugjive:

I didn’t even fully identify as male until I was 20 because I was still trying to discover who I was????

so all that time just

doesn’t exist now?

I guess everyone was just transphobic all my life even though even I didn’t know I was trans back then?

Actually it’s closer to someone who is ace being told they’ll find the right person eventually and constantly told they won’t be happy alone having a place in the community. They aren’t gay but they have still experienced the kind of shit before and are also being denied help from the community that should accept them.

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