rotprophet
asked:
by your logic a straight man whos been called gay as an insult all his life experiences homophobia and belongs in the gay community. misgendering is still transphobia
answered:
I didn’t even fully identify as male until I was 20 because I was still trying to discover who I was????
so all that time just
doesn’t exist now?
I guess everyone was just transphobic all my life even though even I didn’t know I was trans back then?
Actually it’s closer to someone who is ace being told they’ll find the right person eventually and constantly told they won’t be happy alone having a place in the community. They aren’t gay but they have still experienced the kind of shit before and are also being denied help from the community that should accept them.