hmm so theres basicly… like… no reason to mock and invalidate identities… unless theyre genuinely like racist, transphobic and ableist (generally from bigotry or supremacy or dehumanising marginalised ppl)… like just because u hate aro/ace ppl since u heard about a cishet saying something possibly at some point (apparently a few ppl doing it means that communities do it at large)… it doesnt rly explain why u gotta invalidate aro and ace identities……?