lordbape:

The weird thing about tumblr is that there’s been this idea that if you don’t list every axis of your identity (poor, agender, queer, black, multiethnic, libra, tall passing, born on a Tuesday) etc. like list every experience you navigate in your header, people feel free to project some weird cis, straight, etc. identity on you and think that’s *them* being reasonable because you dare not out yourself on a public forum to 40,000 people like….. and if you don’t out yourself publicly you have people condescendingly telling you about your experiences and telling you not to speak over (you???). not that this post is novel because I’ve seen it 90 times and worded better but like I didn’t know that went past like 2013 but I’m wrong