u cant demonize and criminalize homosexuality, murder gays & lesbians in cold blood, establish entire institutions dedicated to converting us into straight people through abuse & rape, tell us repeatedly that we’re going to hell and that we deserve AIDS and we will never find happiness, throw us out of our homes as children and force us into nonconsenual arranged marriages and cut us off financially, refuse to employ us in steady high-paying positions, and then get pissed when gay people perceive “coming out” as a sign of bravery & perseverance & strength