"I’ve also seen someone claim to be a character and also trans so they told everyone in the fandom that the character was canonically trans and when the person got called out on their bullshit, the person started claiming anyone who doesn’t think the character is trans is transphobic." aka 'one bad experience heavily impacts my opinion'
Anonymous

no, it’s more of loads of bad expirience. You seem to neglecting the part about multiple other kin attacking someone who asked them not to kin with a character based off of a halucination. (but I guess that’s not ablest because otherkin are complete angels who do nothing wrong)