one of the most intensely uncomfortable things that’s ever happened to me is anytime i jokingly say that [INSERT MEDIA HERE] made me gay and the person i’m talking to is like “woah… really? that was what made you realize you were gay? what a story, thank you for sharing your inspiring background with me”

like, buddy, the bagel i had for breakfast this morning made me gay. that song on the radio made me gay. you saying that to me in this very moment…. made me gay. i am born anew in my own gayness each and every day