If anyone tells you that you can’t be badass, and also girly, don’t forget to tell them that one of the most beloved Norse goddesses, Freyja, was the goddess of beauty, sexuality, and fertility, but she was also the goddess of sorcery, war and death.
Also she did all this while riding a chariot pulled by cats.
Don’t forget that persephone is the goddess of spring and rebirth and she is also the one ruling the underworld. Like, hades is chill and would probably let everyone just do whatever if persephone didn’t make sure to separate bad, neutral and good people. Without her, Hades would have led orpheus waltz out of the underworld with no caviate but she was like “we can’t just do that, they have to make sure they are at least worth living again” She is girly and she is super hardcore.