culljoy:

There’s a certain professionalism that needs to takes place when you are hosting an entire server and are looked up to as a moderator. An admin. 

One of these professional mannerisms include the ability to not namedrop and start public feuds between other servers. If you want to make your own server, even out of spite, then fine. Making call out post with little to no backup and boasting false claims that could seriously get others in trouble over a petty spout is entirely inconsiderate and immature however. 

Your job is a leader, a founder, and someone that controls the switch behind a hive mind of followers. If you abuse your power and show that you are willing to out someone and their project without considering keeping things private to needlessly start drama, based on assumptions and bias claim, you probably do not deserve to be a moderator or admin period.