nevvyintheheartlock:

usagiskywalker:

nursephantump:

lsdzeppelin:

I noticed the other day that girls usually adapt to their bfs hobbies like if they enjoy idk surfing the girls will start learning facts about it and buying cute things related to it for them and being so proud of their bf like they’re a star even if they aren’t that great at surfing just out of pure love and joy ….. But men never fucking adapt to their gf’s interests like they can’t possibly care less about makeup for example or they’ll just complain about them taking too long to get ready instead of sharing the passion for it and watching them create something beautiful and being interested in why is it that it makes her feel better to do her makeup. Men are so used to not trying at all fuck that tbh!!!!

yall are just dating the wrong fucking people lmao

Seriously, you ARE dating the wrong people. I work in a makeup store and the sheer amount of guys that are fully engaged in what their girlfriends/wives are doing with makeup surprised me. Yes there’s a lot of guys who scoff and roll their eyes about being in the PRESENCE of makeup, but there’s sooooo many that are consistently engaged, looking at colours wanting to help (even when they’re visibly confused and you can see they want to help but don’t know how). My boyfriend even knows more than I thought just from listening to me talk.

Find better quality guys that take interest in your interests and stop settling for assholes.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ AMEN ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

My bf knows very little about makeup or fashion, but he watches beauty guru vids along with me, loves going shopping with me and totally respects my almost hour long Make Up Process Of Doom when we go out - because he knows I’ll be happy and that I’ll look like an absolute queen. He knows what colours suit me and what type of clothes I like. 

I know very little about building computers, but I watch the vids he shows me about new parts, let him use all of my desk space when he’s tinkering on his PC and let him explain what he’s doing - even though I understand barely half of what’s going on. I’m picking up on small things and I love watching him work on something. 

In a good relationship you support EACH OTHER. Stop dating / being douchebags and douchecanoes jfc. This shit isn’t limited to cis men or het couples either.