it isn’t about being anti-ace it’s about not wanting cishets in the community janet

Well it IS being anti-ace if you’re erasing cisgendered heteroromantic asexuals from the queer community so maybe you need to take a nap honey

oh my god. it isn’t the q***r community. that word is a fucking slur & shouldn’t be used to label the whole community. & being cis & straight doesn’t let you into the lgbt community. you aren’t oppressed buddy

Well you have every right to not want to reclaim the word but as I myself am a queerio I personally do wish to. My apologies for offending you in that regard, but you’re still being a butt by not only claiming that the people I love aren’t facing discrimination in both cishet spaces and lgbtqiA spaces, but also by assuming my personal gender identity and sexual orientation.

i never assumed your identity first off. secondly can you stop using that slur as it’s a really horrific trigger for me. thirdly the acronym is lgbt. & lastly being cis & het doesn’t make you lgbt

Hey, to be fair, you’re the one who decided to start shit with me. You came into this discussion knowing that you and I weren’t going to agree, and it was obvious I wasn’t going to say anything that didn’t upset you.

What this tells me is that you came into this discussion with the express purpose of trying to make me look like the villain. You came to me, attacking my viewpoint, and then tried to use my words against me so that your followers with a similar mindset would see how “horrible” I am.

Tell me, in this heteronormative society that you and I both live in, where sex is considered the ultimate expression of love and if you’re not having sex then not only are you a failure as a lover, then your partner MUST be cheating on you, how are asexual and aromantic people not facing oppression? How is being told that you’re broken, that something is wrong with you, that you’re making your partner suffer NOT oppressive and hurtful?

It’s okay, Momi. Us aces are used to being erased. If they want to insist on enforcing heteronormativity, and declare that everyone is straight unless they’re banging someone of the same assigned gender at that very instant, well, there’s not much to be done.

C'mon. We’ll make our own community. With hookers. And blackjack. And then we’ll play blackjack with the hookers because they’re wonderful people, and what else would us asexuals do with them?

I am a demi that apparently doesn’t exist. :D