For real though, if a trans woman tells you not to call her “dude” and your response is to talk about how you call everyone it instead of apologizing and moving on, you’re an ass
Guess I’m an ass, even my dog is dude and she’s a girl
That’s great but I’m not your dog and your dog doesn’t understand complex thought that exists with dysphoria and gendered abuse. And, frankly, if you go out of your way to misgender people and make them uncomfortable and suicidal, be prepared to fight transphobe.