people really need to stop conceptualizing nonbinary as a third defined gender. there are countless ways to be nonbinary and nonbinary genders are personal and unique to each individual. stop assuming things about nonbinary people. stop telling nonbinary people they’re not nonbinary because they don’t present or act or call themselves in the specific way which you have conceptualize nonbinary.
Also.. ppl need to cease acting like ALL nonbinary people are man-aligned or woman-aligned! Many are, of course, but not all nonbinary people are binary-aligned by any means. And those that are _____-aligned are still their nonbinary identity regardless of presentation!