pembrokewkorgi:

pembrokewkorgi:

I think it’s about time I open up a bit more about what’s going on in my life.

My marriage has been rocky for the last couple years.

Ever since my wife got diagnosised with bi-polar disordered, she’s decided it gives her an excuse to do whatever the hell she wants.

She started spending all the money I made, even getting us evicted out of our last home, because she decided to spend the money I made to pay rent claiming “She didn’t care if it was for rent or not.”

She’s treated me horrendously, often bad mouthing to my face and in front of people.  Yelling at my daughter for no reason.  Spending money on stupid stuff we can’t afford, and just generally making everyone around her severely unhappy.

But if we say anything about it, her reply is always “I have bi-polar disorder, you can’t get mad at me for this stuff.”

We’ve been living with her parents for like a year and I finally had enough and told her I wanted a separation.

Unfortunately leaving hasn’t been easy, and a bunch of things keep be from moving out.

I was begged to stay for a while, since soon after I told my wife I was leaving, we found out her grandfather, my daughter’s great grandfather, was put in the hospital in critical condition… and giving my daughter a 1-2 punched of me leaving and her great grandfather possibly dying (fortunately he didn’t, but at the time we didn’t know that) was not something I wanted to do.

When things calmed down, I decided to talk to my daughter about me leaving, only to find out that despite being told not to do it at the time, my wife went ahead and talked to her about it claiming I wasn’t “man enough” to talk to AJ (my daughter) about it.  Pretty much she was trying to manipulate the whole situation to make me look bad in front of my daughter.

Fortunately for me, I have a very smart daughter, because she didn’t buy what her mom told her for a second, and was happy to hear my side of the story, even going as far as to tell me she doesn’t blame me for leaving her mom, because she, much like me, feels her mom has gone nuts.

So again, I prepare to leave soon… only to get arrest for traffic tickets and put in jail.  I got bailed out of jail, but I was told I could leave my current address until my court date of June 5th.  Sigh…

So in the mean time I also found out that because of my wife getting us evicted and all the other credit issues she’s caused me, that I can’t get an apartment on my own.

My friend Sean stepped in to see if he could get a two bedroom at his apartment complex (which he’s been at for 8 years) and have me move in with him.  He asked the complex and they setup everything saying that since he’s been there for so long, they’d let me live there based on his standing with the place.  Sounded perfect.  This wouldn’t just give me a place to live, but also allow me to fix my renters history.

So they asked that I filled an application for legal reasons, but said there shouldn’t be any trouble.  Go to the complex to do this, and seemly what they told us was bullshit, because they told us that since I was evicted I couldn’t live there, even though Sean told them about it in the first place.

To make matters worse, they planned for Sean to move into the new apartment despite me not signing an application yet, and already rented out his current apartment.  Meaning that he now has to move too.

They said they’ll find him a new apartment to live at in the complex, but he’ll still have to move regardless, which is fucking shitty.

So I’m talking with some people to see if there’s anything I can do to fix my renters history… but if there’s not, then essentially I won’t have a place to live and Sean will still get screwed over in the fact he’ll have to move for virtually no reason.

It’s bad enough that bad things just seem to happen to me, but it’s even more upsetting that a friend is practically getting screwed over just for trying to help me.  I’m very upset to say the least.

I have a back up plan of what to do if things don’t work out with living with Sean… but I’m still very upset about everything.

I feel so empty inside.

Sorry for this long winded emo as fuck post, but I figured you guys may want to know what’s going on.

Seemly life sucks and I need a helmet.

Well, here’s an update on what’s going on in my life… things got worse.

Well, remember how I said my friend was trying to get me as a roommate, because his apartment said I’d be fine since he was in such good standard with them.  Well, it got worse.  Apartment complex doesn’t have any one bedrooms to move him into, so he either has to take the two bedroom he can’t afford on his own, or move out (which he doesn’t have time to do).

So I go to the apartment I was evicted from to see what I owe and if there’s anything I can do about it.  Seemly I owe $4,222 to get the eviction off, and that’s the only way to get it off.  But they sent it to a debt collector, and since debt collectors are often more interested in getting money rather than the exact amount of the debt, I figured I’d call them and they might make me a deal.  NOPE! 

Not just that, but seemly another apartment complex, that isn’t showing on my renter’s history I might add, is also claiming I got evicted (when I didn’t) and sent it to the same collection agency.  That agency is refusing to let me just pay one of the debts owed and forcing me to pay both that totals to $8k, and don’t give a shit that one of them is bullshit.  They won’t let my eviction get removed unless I pay the entire $8k and won’t even do a payment plan with me.  It’s so fucked up.

 So unless Sean or I can pull $8K out of our ass, he gets screwed. 

I was so upset, I made myself sick and had to call into work. >_<

I hate asking for help or donations, because some asshat always gives me grief for it, but I don’t know what to do.  I don’t want Sean to get screwed over and I need out of my situation and I’m literally at my wits end.

So if anyone wants to help, you can send me donations via Paypal at pembrokewkorgi@gmail.com.  I’d appreciate anything you can give me, and thanks in advance.  And sorry for being such a pathetic whelp.