One of my players sent this to me and was like “This reminds me of your campaigns”.

Yup.  Pretty much.  They once became so enamored with a non-plot essential  NPC that they resurrected him from the dead (at great expense to themselves) not once, not twice, but THREE times.

Yesterday. Although, to be fair you set them up for that one.

the dm had these random ass low level barbarians break into our rooms, they werent supposed to be anything more then a mild challenge to get the game started.

i decided out of nowhere that i liked one of them so i convinced my party to spare him. he is now not only part of our party but my boyfriend.

That is excellent.