rosexknight:

moomuffns-blog:

Fucker. I don’t give a DAMN about cis het or not. Ace is ace. And ace belongs in lgbtA THATS WHY ITS FUCKING THERE!!!
Say it with me now! The A in lgbta+ stands for ACE. The A in lbgta+ stands for ACE.
THE A IN LBGTA​ STANDS FOR FUCKING ACEEEEE
Miss me with that gatekeeping bullshit ho. The only ones who DON’T belong are cis, heterosexual, heteromantic, perfectly straight men and women. Ace is not heterosexual nor heteromantic. Ace is the lack of sexual attract or romantic attraction.
But seriously, fuck off with your “not gay enough” ideology. There are plenty of strait trans men and women. There are plenty of cis bi, lesbian, and gay men and women. They are all valid members of the lbgt+ community, so tell me the absolute frickty frackity God damned bullshit reason a cis het person who happens to fit SOMEWHERE on the ace spectrum can’t also be welcomed into this community??
Unless you were talking about ace lesbians, cause then you done fucked up that ask from the very beginning and I won’t even go into that mess.

OR BETTER YET!!!!!
LET PEOPLE IDENTIFY THEMSELVES IN WHATEVER WEIRD ASS FUCKING WAY THEY PLEASE BECAUSE YOU DON’T HAVE A FUCKING CLUE HOW THEY FEEL!! YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE OR AREN’T ATTRACTED TO!
Sexuality is a complex, messy thing. It can change. It can be completely absent. You don’t NEED to label your sexuality at all. And most fucking importantly, YOU don’t get to say who can or cannot feel a certain way or be welcomed into a community that is literally about being anything EXCEPT straight. Ace is not heterosexual. Ace is not heteromantic. Ace is the lack of any sexual/ romantic interest.
If it were literally anyone other than a cis person you’d have been fine. There are cis lesbians. There are cis homosexual men. There are cis bisexual men and women. So WHY can’t there be cis ace people as well?
And the only reason I’m not including trans, gender fluid, non binary and androgynous people is because your ask said specifically CIS people.
So again, cis heterosexual but aceromantic people are valid and exist. Cis asexual but heteromantic people are valid and exist. You can not gatekeep and say who is allowed in or not. You. Do. Not. Have. That. Power. Over. Other. Fucking. People. And. Their. Sexuality. And you never will. It is not your choice. It is theirs. It is those people who while attracted in a very hetero way, do not find any form of sex or sexual acts appealing. It is those who find hetero sex appealing, are not romantically inclined to anyone.
You don’t get to say “no, you don’t exist.” Or “no, you’re too straight.” The only people who shouldn’t be allowed to proclaim themselves part of the lbgt+ community AS ANYTHING OTHER THAN ALLIES are cis heterosexual AND heteromantic people you need both. You can be cis het asexual. You can be cis het aceromantic. Both fall on the ace spectrum.
Basically, everyone has a place in this community (or allianced with as allies) except transphobes, homophobes, pedos ( though they don’t belong anywhere except prison or at the bad end of a lethal injection imo, but let’s stay focused) or otherwise antilbgt+ groups. And unless they fall into the ^^^^ (above) categories, you don’t get to decide who can be a part of it.

Originally posted by meanwhileongiphy