When entitled people get what they want, they only become more entitled.
If a single man feels entitled to a woman dating him, then if a woman actually dated him, he’d continue to feel entitled. He’d feel entitled to sex whenever he wants. He’d feel entitled to her obeying him. He’d feel entitled to controlling who she interacts with. He’d feel entitled to her never breaking up with him.
The problem is his sense of entitlement, not the women who reject him.
I think one important thing to remember about this that domestic violence and abuse is frequently erased/ignored and often not really perceived as “real” violence in our society. That’s a big reason why people don’t really consider the fact these men would be violent to their female partners.
mate if you think thats a problem for women wait until you find out about men.
we don’t even have access to abuse shelters
while the female on male abuse issue is a problem, this post was specifically about the entitlement and violence that incels perpetuate and how giving them what they want wont make them less violent. Saying that abused men have it tough too, while true, is just detracting from the point and not bringing in anything to the subject at hand.